What does it mean to feel flawed?

What does it mean to feel flawed?

To feel flawed is to think and believe that there is something fundamentally wrong with you, your looks, your behaviour, your personality, even at the deepest core level of your soul.  It is probably something that you have felt for a very long time, perhaps since childhood and it could have come about for a variety of reasons. Feeling flawed causes people to feel self-conscious, self-critical and shame.  When we give ourselves negative messages about who we are we are giving ourselves the greatest dis-service.  It can affect so many areas of people’s lives, relationships, work, self-motivations, beliefs, achievements and…

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Any guilt trips planned for this year?

Any guilt trips planned for this year?

Been on a guilt trip lately?  Or perhaps you are on one as you are reading this.  Think of all those amazing places you could go to in the world.   Even if you don’t pack a suitcase or leave your house you could be in a much better place right now than the guilt trip. So you didn’t call that person you said you would.  Will they survive?  I’m sure they will. So you are meant to put aside an afternoon this week to visit someone that means a lot to you.  Well maybe you want to go and…

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