Have you heard the term Passive Aggressive. It relates to the way some people interact with others and can cause huge problems between couples.
Relationships are complicated at the best of times. We all go through ups and downs, emotional highs and lows. Many long-term relationships overcome challenges and obstacles to stay together in a loving way; others do not, or cannot, overcome difficulties but they stay together anyway.
Learning more about passive aggressive behaviour is a first step to taking power and control in what can otherwise feel like a hopeless situation.