6 steps to deal with a control freak

6 steps to deal with a control freak

If the control freak in your life is your mother you should be an expert by now in how to be in control.  After all you’ve lived with a control freak your whole life.  You might even have an honours degree in the subject.  However in reality you may very well still be struggling, perhaps not with your mother, but how about the controlling boss, the client or the ex-husband.  If you were controlled and manipulated as a child then its no surprise that others might pick up on that and take the mantle. Here are six ways to take back…

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What is the mindset blueprint?

What is the mindset blueprint?

The mindset blueprint Have you heard about the mindset blueprint?  It is all about reprogramming the mind to reach your goals. In order to be successful in the business world you need 20% skill and 80% mindset.  Mindset is the number 1 thing that needs to be worked on.  You can have all the skills in the world but if your attitude is wrong you are not going far.  I came across this concept at a recent motivational talk given by Jo Bioletti, who started her first business at 21 and is now a professional network marketer.  Jo talked about following a cycle of behaviour…

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What are personal boundaries and why are they important?

What are personal boundaries and why are they important?

Personal boundaries, you’ve heard about them but what are they?  A boundary is a dividing line, a border, a partition that separates one person from another.  From a psychological perspective it can apply to emotions, physical space, material space, mental awareness, sexuality and spirituality. This post is going to focus on the emotional aspect of boundaries.  In particular the personal energetic boundaries that are needed when people are feeling vulnerable, abused, walked over, talked over and generally weakened by the presence of another human being. That other someone is often the closest in terms of a partner, parent, friend or boss.…

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